She made it clear what I needed to do, and I’ve spent the past eight years doing exactly that. I have become the kind of man who deserves a woman like her.
The first few years of college, I was aimless. The consummate slacker, I hardly knew what I wanted. With her sharp, swift kick, I got my act together, focused all my energies for once, pulled my average grades up, completed my engineering degree, earned a master’s, and went on to become a designer of thrill rides.
So yeah, I owe her big-time.
And from what I’ve seen on social media, the girl I once thought of as the best thing I’d ever done is successful, funny, and just as beautiful as she was then. Better yet, even though I haven’t friend-requested her and learned the true skinny on her life—I don’t want to ruin the surprise—Facebook shows her relationship status as “single.” Now that’s something worth pulling out a grand gesture for.
Especially since I haven’t met anyone since who can hold a candle to her.
Fine, calling her might be easier. Picking up the phone and asking her to dinner could work too.
But why do anything halfway?
You either go big or go home.
No one ever said the big gesture was easy. That’s why they work. They show that the hero is busting his ass to win back the woman.
As I exit the highway into the little wine country town, I don’t see how she can say no.
Ione Skye couldn’t turn down John Cusack, after all.
* * *
The thing you learn as an engineer is to prepare. To plan. And to test scenarios.
Don’t go into any situation blind. The more data you have, the better off you’ll be.
I looked up my girl on Zillow. I checked property records. Not like a stalker checking out an ex, because that’s not cool, and I aim to be cool. Especially since I spent so much of my younger years being thoroughly uncool. Which might explain why I do my damnedest to avoid social media now. I’m not sure I’d know what to say or post, so why bother?
Since I still have Cassie’s phone number—a reverse number search tells me she didn’t change it from college—the plan is to call her and ask her to come to the window.
But first, since I’m one hour and twenty-seven minutes early, I stop at a coffee shop, grab an iced tea, and review the projects I’m working on, as well as the requests to use my patented safety feature. I check the time, tuck my phone into my jeans, and head to the restroom to brush my teeth. Fresh breath is a prerequisite for any big gesture. I comb my fingers through my thick brown hair then nod at my reflection.
Yep, I look good.
I get back in my car, turn on the GPS, and head to her home, smiling as I set eyes on it. Yellow. Her favorite color.
Somehow, seeing she hasn’t changed that much makes me feel like this can work. She didn’t need to change. I did. I park a block away and do my best to ignore the nerves that are flickering around in my chest.
Tom Cruise wasn’t nervous when he was being chased by Guido the Killer Pimp. I don’t need to be, and my hero, Lloyd Dobler, certainly wasn’t either when he pulled up in his Chevy Malibu.
I grab the clunky boom box from the front seat. Thank God for pawnshops because that’s where all boom boxes have gone to die. Or to find second lives. When I picked this out amid the old electric guitars and gaudy jewelry at Twice Around, a pawnshop near where I live in San Francisco, the grizzled, tatted dude at the counter shook his head in amusement. “Never thought I’d move this bad boy,” he’d said.
“Maybe it was fate that it was waiting for me,” I’d suggested.
“Sure. Fate. How about forty dollars and fate can be yours?”
That was good enough for me. But tracking down a boom box of this size and shape wasn’t even the hardest part. The toughest thing to do? Getting her favorite song, “Unzipped,” transferred onto cassette tape. Ransom’s wife said her parents were pack rats and kept everything, so she found an old mixtape in her folks’ garage, and with a Mac and some elbow grease, I managed to jury-rig a solution to transfer “Unzipped” on top of Debbie Gibson, saving me the trouble of waiting for Amazon to ship me a new cassette tape.
Of course, that also means I get to give my brother’s wife a hard time about how much she loved the bubblegum singer and her tunes like “Lost in Your Eyes” and “Only in My Dreams.”
But then, we’re not that different. Even though I was a kid in the ’90s and a teen in the first decade of this century, I always felt like I was born in the wrong decade. The ’80s are where it’s at for me.
Technically, I could stream “Unzipped” on my iPhone and hold that above my head in the driveway.
But I could also design a roller coaster that doesn’t get above twenty miles an hour. What’s the point of that?
As twilight falls, I walk along the sidewalk. For a moment, I consider the risk I’m taking. Neighbors might get pissed. I could get cited by the cops for disturbing the peace.
Most likely scenario? Since I’m a glass-half-full guy, I’ll say it’s that the love of my life will hear our song, run out the front door, throw her arms around me, and say, “Kyler, I’d been hoping you’d show up today.”
When I’m a few houses away, my stomach nose-diving with nerves, I dial her number. It rings, and rings, and rings.
Voicemail.
Nope. Won’t go there. Dudes who leave voicemails end up on the never-date list that gets circulated to all women. I hang up.
But I don’t fret, because when I reach her home, a light shines by the front window, and another one flickers upstairs. A car is parked in the driveway. A little red Honda.
Excellent.
I walk halfway up the stone path and plant my feet in a wide stance. I hit the play button and hold the silver beast high above my head at full volume, waiting for the opening notes of the ballad.
Briefly, I wonder if Lloyd Dobler felt at all like he was about to make a gigantic fool of himself. But I decide Lloyd Dobler didn’t feel that way at all. No matter how dorky or nerdy he was, that dude knew how to get things done.
The tune begins, and my jaw drops.
What the hell?
No. No way. No fucking way.
Scrambling, I kneel, setting the boom box on the grass as I stab the stop button. But I hit fast-forward instead. Crap. I hit play once more, and it’s Debbie Gibson, singing about her dreams, and there’s no way this is happening.
No way at all.
I cannot serenade my woman with Debbie Gibson.
I can’t serenade any woman with Debbie Gibson.
I need the Peter Gabriel soundalike and his rocker cool, taking it slow and easy, melting women.
I hit the fast-forward button again. The player makes another squealing noise, and I notice a gray-haired lady a few houses down, peering over her porch swing, watching me.
I slap on a play-it-cool smile even as my heart ticks a million miles an hour.
Finally, when I reach the end of the pop princess’s “Only in My Dreams,” my heart rate starts to settle as “Unzipped” comes on.
Minor snafu.
That’s all this is. I check out the house. She’s not even at the window yet.
Whew.
I can do this. I can right this ship.
Especially since there’s a shadow behind the curtain, almost as if she knew she had to wait for me to cue up the song. She knows I’m not the smoothest guy, and she’s okay with that.
I hit play. Take two.
This time, our song begins, and as it echoes around me, so do memories, fantastic ones of her and me dancing, laughing, planning to spend the night together.
As the chorus starts, I see feminine fingers tugging at the white curtains at a window on the second floor.
Yes. Come a little closer.
“I want your love unzip—”
The crooner’s voice shorts out and stops.
Just. Stops.
My shoulders sag, and I groan in epic frustration.
Take three.
Hitting buttons over and over again, I try to get the song to play. But no music sounds. Instead, the noise that fills the air is the boom box eating the cassette tape. This is why we went digital.
And this leaves me with only one choice.
I raise the boom box above my head a third time, and I do something I only do in the shower or the car.